I’m nineteen days into my latest bout of temporary insanity single parenting, and I’m starting to get a little rough around the edges. I haven’t quite crumbled, except I did order three pairs of shoes from Nordstrom.com last Friday evening (day 14), and I may or may not have bought an item (or two) from Anthropologie, because nothing says Crazy Anxious Shopaholic Mama spring like a soft, cotton maxi dress…or two.
Anyway, the rough edges: One of the toilets is hissing, the pool filter is clogged, and the dog is on a hunger strike. Around day seven or eight, the kids began sleeping in different beds, including mine. There’s a mild but annoying tummy ache making its way through our family, and – hooray! – it’s my turn. Dylan has a cold, which is probably headed in my direction next since he’s been my most frequent bedmate. The flu is going around school, and Riley’s classroom appears to be ground zero. We haven’t contracted said flu yet, but the possibility alone is giving me aches and chills.
I almost went through a red light with the kids in the car on Saturday because I got distracted counting how many more days we had left. It was 11 at that point, I think, but I got sidetracked when I had to slam on the breaks. I scrambled eggs past their expiration date for dinner on Sunday night (insert sad trombone sound), I have writer’s block, and there’s a book fair at school this week, at which my boys will buy toys disguised as books and we will probably catch the flu. Oh, and Daylight Saving Time. (Why do we do this again? So my kids can have more daylight to play Plants vs. Zombies on the Xbox?)
Even so, rough edges be damned! I refuse to be a pessimist. The world is ripe with problems way bigger than my solo parenting gig, I haven’t seen a single dead rat inside the house, the Wi-Fi is still working, and I only have three trashes to go. That, and deep breaths (and my shoes have shipped).
Do you or your significant other travel for long periods of time for work?
3 responses to “Rough Around The Edges”
Ok – first off – congratulations on your new shoes and all the other treasures you may have acquired! You TOTALLY deserve them – and then some! Thankfully my husband doesn’t travel a lot – but I miss him dearly when he does – and I love that you count “times to take the trash out” – because that is one of the things that he does and I hate it! Second off – what’s up with “Plants vs. Zombies” – we should get our boys together – they are totally into that game and minecraft!!!! Let’s have a play date and blog about it! 🙂 @MamaintheNow
I am married to a chef. Most of the week we don’t even SEE him. He’s rather a hottie and kind and charming so i cannot complain (also, second marriage = VERY different), but I am literally alone with kids from friday after school to monday morning…and I do not have kids who can be left alone. It’s ROUGH, that would be a good word here too ❤
I DREAD everytime my partner goes out of town for conventions and whatnot. I tend to just pack up the baby and leave for my parents while he’s out of town, which has its own batch of headaches, but at least there are extra pairs of hands to wrangle the kid.
Also, um, YAY FOR NORDY’S SHOES. I went shoe shopping myself during my last visit away without my partner.